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Creation is magical enough to
allow each of us to live true to the truth of our own being and yet
allow the other to remain free to do the same. There is no need to
force anyone to do anything. All you can really do is create the
space for the other to exercise their free will and show them what
is possible.
One needs to be fully invested in what they do. However, when you
work with the free will of another, there usually, if not almost
always, is a desired response from the individual. You want their
first response to be what you what. But that is not allowing them
the freedom for them to choose. To work with another, you must go
into your being and go out as far as you have to past your
expectations to not identify with them accepting or not accepting
your offer. You have to be able to fully accept them saying no and
them saying yes. You must be open to both options. You cannot be
identified with either response. Then you can be fully invested in
one or the other and you have given a true free choice to the other.
Then, when the individual responds, be fully invested in that
response.
In making a request of another, consider the following approach. It
must be remembered that the first response one gives is independent
of what is asked. The first response is based on the past and how
one responded in the past. Ask anybody for anything but don’t expect
anything from them as to how they will respond. You will need to
live on the edge between the two possible choices of accepting and
declining. You need to go to where you don’t know if you are going
to get away with what you desire to do and what you ask and have
either choice be acceptable. Learning to live with either/or is
about not being tied to what you want and not doing what the ego
would prefer but living differently.
To set the stage to make the request, get a clear picture of the
individual in your mind and get a clear picture of yourself. Then
picture your request taking place. Then picture your request not
taking place. When you able to live with either response, then you
can ask them what you wish for you will not be binding them to
either a yes or no. You can live with either and they have the
freedom to choose.
If you truly want a particular response and you want to ensure it,
you will have to consider the fact that you are the creator of your
experiences and the world you experience. The other is there only to
give you the experience you desire. You will need to understanding
it is because of how and what you choose to believe and how you are
making your choices that has created the world as you currently
experience it. You will have to go within and ask your
intuitive guidance, “What do I need to do, what do I need to
become to live my life such that I create a world and/or a way of
being in the world such that I bring to me the experience where the
other individual is free to respond in the way I desire?” You then
will have to listen to your intuitive guidance and
honor the intuitive guidance you receive following the guidance
you get to create that world.
If you doubt you can change the world, you need to remember
everything in this world created by a human being started with a
thought within the mind of a single individual. You have such a
power within your being. But you have to ask yourself what you need
to do and what you need to become to change the external world. But
to change the external world, you first have to start with how you
respond to the world. How you respond to the world is based on how
and what you think and believe and the choices you make. So to
change the external world, any part of it, including the response of
a person, you must look within and see what needed to be changed
internally.
How long will it take? It all depends on what you desire to create
and the starting conditions in which you find yourself.
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