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There are a variety of issues that arise relative to our
relationship when we seek to
reconstitute our
creative power and creative ability. They all are ultimately related to the way we are
attached to those in our life. Some of the strongest
attachments we
have are our relationship.
Reconstituting our
creative
ability and creative power requires us
to pull back our
creative life energy from all aspects of our life
where we have thrust out to create one thing or another that is
somehow robbing and/or depleting the flow of our creative life
energy. In realizing we are pulling our creative power and creative
ability back from what we created in, and with, our life, we can
cause our whole life to collapse. Part of the life we have created
are the relationship we have with individuals in our life.
How big a transformation of our life we will face and how big an
impact it has on the relationship in our life depends on how far out
of alignment what we created is from the
intention for our life. It
depends on how much of our
creative life energy has been directed
into activities that have not honor and held our creativity sacred.
To
reconstitute our
creative
ability and creative power to the depth
and breadth of our unlimited creativity, we can expect every
relationship in our life to change. Some individuals will leave our
life. Some will stay. New individuals will enter our life.
What can be expected for any one relationship depends on how true we
were living
our truth with that individual. The greater we lived our
truth, the less the relationship will transform. The less we lived
our truth, the greater the transformation that can be expected.
What we will face is breaking the existing attachment within any one
relationship and forming a new attachment based on the
truth of our being. However, some individuals may not wish to be in our presence
when we live the truth of our being. Those individuals we can expect
to leave our life. All we can do is set the intention that
individuals who do not like what we are becoming are gently lead to
where they are safe and secure to live in the way they wish to live.
But breaking
attachments does not mean abandoning a loving and
meaningful relationship. Meaningful relationships are relationships
that nourishes the unfoldment of our
creative spirit. They nourish
the parts of us that transcends our current life and those that are
a product of this life. We each need one or more meaningful
relationships in our life if we are going to unfold true to
ourselves. If the relationship is truly a meaningful it will only be
enhanced as we live
our truth.
We need to realize,
Creation cannot be done alone. We each need
another or others to give us the experiences we desire to have. Some
of those relationship need to be meaningful. This requirement is
simply a result of the fact that one goal of life is to find and
have relationships that provide us the experiences we incarnated to
have. That is, to freely express the
truth of our being to create
the life our
creative spirit desires to have. We need another or
others to nourish our growth and unfoldment that allow us to expand
into the full depth and breath of our being.
What this means in terms of our existing relationships is to end
those relationships where a dependency exist on any person or thing.
It needs to be clearly understood, we need other to give us the
experience we need to have but nothing we need depends on any
particular other. There are an infinite number of ways to get what
we need. We may need a particular other to create a particular
creation. But relative to what we need, there is no particular
other.
It is here
love and the
emotions we associate with love become very
relevant, including sexuality. Love is never dependent and not a
dependency. To love another because we perceive them as giving us
joy, bliss and satisfaction, as opposed to joy, bliss and
satisfaction arising from within our own being and our own desire to
share it with another, is dependence. The other individual may
provide a space for us to be free to experience who and what you are
at each and every level of being including sexuality, but you are
not dependent on them for the joy, bliss and satisfaction we feel
when joy, bliss and satisfaction comes from within. They only create
the space for what is within us to come out.
The key to a constructive attachment to any individual in our life
no matter what they seem to provides is to know that we can find
another to provide that same space if we are not afraid to do the
work to find that other. In this understanding we are choosing in
freedom to be with the one we have chosen but we are not dependent
on them. That is, we don’t need them but choose to have them.
What does need to be understood is to create a specific creation
there may be a particular other that cannot be replaced by any
other. We each are a
unique creative being so each of us will create
uniquely with any one other. What we create with that individual
will be unique and cannot be created with any other. However, it is
the creation that is created that needs the particular other.
Nothing that arises from within our being, such as an experience of
wholeness, fulfillment, satisfaction, joy, bliss, oneness, and the
like comes from any particular other. There is not an individual on
the face of the earth with whom we could not have the most
passionate and fulfilling
love affair and creative experience. All
that stands in the way is our own
mind. The question is what do we
desire to create and who or what do we need to create what we
desire.
From the perspective of the
intention for our life, there are
experiences we incarnated to have. Some of them may require a
particular individual for a particular type and kind of experience.
But that does not mean the individual who gives us those particular
experiences will remain in our life. When the experience is had,
there is no need for us to remain with them. Most of the experience
we incarnated to have do not require a specific other. However, many
of the experience we have, painful or pleasurable, are quite
intense. It is almost impossible to not form some type and kind of
attachment to the individual who gives us such an experience.
It is these intense experiences which most often arise to be
addressed to reform our
attachments with individuals in our life.
But any experience we have is a two way street. They experience us
and we experience them. The fact we may deal with the intensity of
the experience and the way we have bound our energy does not mean
the other individual is willing to do the same. In these cases the
individual will part or the relationship will turn somewhat icy
and/or less intimate. Many family relationship lie in this category.
For those relationship where each individual is willing to address
the energy that is bound, the relationship will grow more intimate
and fulfilling whether or not an individual stays in our life.
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